A Little Bit About Me
Salaam,
Thanks for visiting my profile. I’m a 44-year old British Bangladeshi, born and raised in London with family roots in the Dhaka area. I work in finance, currently based in the City, and enjoy the flexibility of hybrid working.
I have never been married and have no children. I am now serious about building a marriage, a home, and a family with someone who wants these things too.
I come from a small family — one sibling, who is married with a child — and a close-knit community of relatives and friends, which taught me family values and the importance of maintaining relationships, even with relatives I may not speak to often these days but with whom bonds were formed in childhood.
My early life was a social carousel of functions, birthdays, trips, and weddings. I enjoyed it but realised later that I am a natural introvert, and while I enjoy socialising with those close to me and building meaningful new connections, I recharge in the quieter moments.
I was 30 by the time I moved out of my parents’ home and bought my own place. Living alone gave me that sanctuary I didn’t have growing up, whilst maintaining social networks and working long hours to advance my career. I was content — happy being single, with a fulfilling life and peace in the solitary moments.
I did make efforts to meet someone for marriage, through introductions and online. Looking back, I realise I wasn’t ready to give up the lifestyle I had curated and take on the responsibilities of being a husband. I was also less religious at the time and open to marrying outside the faith, yet I always felt something — like an invisible hand — holding me back from going down the wrong path.
Over time, I came to embrace Islam in my heart, its truth, guidance, and structure. Whilst following Islamic values, I struggled with consistent practice and was surrounded by diverse, often liberal influences. Accepting my place as Allah’s servant has been the most liberating experience of my life. I pray, fast, give charity, and hope to perform Hajj with my future spouse, knowing I still have much to learn.
I have a calm temperament, a kind heart, an inquisitive mind, and a thoughtful soul. I am resilient, empathetic, respectful, and dignified. I value treating others with care and courtesy, maintaining composure, and showing good manners. I’m stoic in nature and have learned to better express and articulate my feelings.
I enjoy deep conversation and am a good listener. I have a dry sense of humour and like to find levity amongst life’s seriousness. I strive for self-improvement, endeavouring to lead an active lifestyle and maintain a healthy diet. I swim, go to the gym, take long walks, and have a newfound appreciation for real, whole foods. I enjoy cooking and am well-versed in domestic duties. I enjoy reading, watching sports and travelling when I can.
I have learned to appreciate the simple joys such as the evening sun in the park, a coffee with an old friend, an arthouse cinema escape, or a leisurely drive to nowhere in particular.
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What I Am Looking For
I want a marriage within the Islamic framework, with clarity and structure. I am ready to assume the responsibilities of a husband to provide financial security and protection for my wife and, Insha’Allah, our future children; to lead and guide with humility; to promote growth, ensure wellbeing, and be a role model.
I seek a wife who shares my fundamental values and desire for a family. Someone who wants children and to raise them as good Muslims. If blessed with children, someone who would prioritise their early years over her career. Someone who I hope will take pride in building a joyful, peaceful, and harmonious home, and someone who’ll allow her femininity to flourish in a safe, supported, and empowered environment.
I am looking for love — the kind that grows from companionship, respect, trust, support, and loyalty. In a culture where unsolicited interference from family or community can be common, I want us to be each other’s rock, to stand together and defend one another. I seek emotional intimacy, where we can be vulnerable knowing the other will catch us if we fall and lift us back up. I also value passion and romance — a closeness nurtured through physical touch and acts of service, which are my primary love languages. I appreciate kindness, warmth and intelligence.
If you feel we may be compatible I would love to start a conversation. Insha’Allah we all find what we are looking for.
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